{"id":204,"date":"2020-10-04T12:16:10","date_gmt":"2020-10-04T06:46:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ranjith.ml\/?p=204"},"modified":"2023-03-08T04:37:28","modified_gmt":"2023-03-07T23:07:28","slug":"dialogue-in-the-dark","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.rvnair.in\/?p=204","title":{"rendered":"Dialogue in the Dark"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>This is a very nice story, and teaches us a unique lesson. Without any more ado, here it goes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My husband is great at giving me surprises and this year was no less!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After a nice morning drive, he said he planned a special lunch for me. We reach the 3rd floor of a particular mall and entered an eatery whose board read, \u201c&nbsp;<em>Dialogue in the Dark\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I could make out that it was a different place because I couldn\u2019t see any people just a counter with a manager, a menu card and a bell.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We walked up, he said, \u201cAha, you&#8217;re here, Happy Birthday, and we hope we make your day memorable to you.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The manager smiled and asked us to follow him in a pathway which for some reason kept getting darker and darker, until a point I had to hold my husband because I could absolutely see nothing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The manager now turned to us and said, \u201cI am handing you over to our server for the day, Sampath.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sampath greeted us warmly and began by saying, \u201c&nbsp;<em>As you can see; you can&#8217;t see!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s pitch dark already and there are no sources of light inside either; please hold my hand, trust me, you are safe with me and I&#8217;ll take you to your table.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We did as he told us, holding each other, we touched the walls to support and not trip and as promised, we were safe and reached our table.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sampath brought in our meals in 10 minutes, and asked us to enjoy !<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I thought \u201c&nbsp;<em>Enjoy what ..Darkness?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And for the next 45 minutes, we ate in complete darkness!!&nbsp;<em>We fumbled, we mumbled<\/em>&nbsp;~ and we had to feel the roti, figure out the sabzi, chutney, water, etc. Not being able to see my husband , just able to hear each other out,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It was difficult in the beginning but as time went on , we completed our delicious meal &amp; it was a unique experience indeed !<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When we were done, we called Sampath who came promptly, we stood, placed our hand in his and walked ahead and as we headed back out towards the light I was relieved; And I could finally see the back of Sampath&#8217;s head, and THEN HE TURNED!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My jaw dropped instantaneously when I finally and actually saw Sampath !&nbsp;<em>A visually-disabled man! No eyes whatsoever!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sampath whispered softly, \u201cWhat you experienced was not only how disabled the blind people are&nbsp;<em>but also how uniquely able we are! \u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While I almost tripped multiple times, couldn\u2019t bear the darkness beyond few minutes; they live like this all their lives!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>His spirit, his positivity, his SMILE!&nbsp;<em>I was humbled<\/em>&nbsp;and filled with a profound sense of respect for them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was literally in their shoes for 60 minutes; I felt their pain, felt their world and felt their emotions,&nbsp;<em>and to say the least, their courage too ! That was empathy !<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I thought to myself,&nbsp;<em>\u201cSampath might not have eyes, but he surely has VISION\u201d<\/em>. And I would never discard right away anyone again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>What a Birthday<\/em>&nbsp;!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>( Author unknown )<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is a very nice story, and teaches us a unique lesson. Without any more ado, here it goes: My husband is great at giving me surprises and this year was no less! After a nice morning drive, he said he planned a special lunch for me. 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